Life on the move can be a disorientating experience for those not used to the ever-changing demands and challenges of the grey nomad lifestyle.
And for those newcomers who haven’t yet established a routine, or for those couples who haven’t worked out who is responsible for what job, things can quickly go awry.
The travellers’ hall of ignominy is filled with red-faced adventurers who have suffered such misfortunes as driving off from a site without the van properly attached, or with the pop-top roof still up.
And then there are those who didn’t check that a particular van park could cope with a rig their size, or simply forgot to book a site ahead of arriving at a tourism hotspot, or even forgot their van was due for a rego check.
Are lists a life-on-the road must do, or are they something you'd rather forget about in your new, relaxed lifestyle? PIC: Cizza
With meals to organise, fuel to buy, potholes to avoid, sights to see, maintenance to be carried out, people to meet, and fun to be had, it can be hard to keep across all of the little jobs required to keep on living the dream.
For many grey nomads, particularly those who have not long left the predictability and familiarity of their bricks-and-mortar lifestyle it can seem a little overwhelming … and that’s where lists come in.

Can you add wash the van to the list please, love? PIC: Cizza
Whether it’s making a checklist of jobs to do before leaving camp, or jobs to do while setting up camp, or making shopping lists, or lists of places to add to the itinerary, many of the most contented travellers regularly jot down reminders of things to do.
Leading psychotherapist Sean Grover, writing in Psychology Today, says to-do lists are essential for following through on a plan of action while managing tasks without burdening memories with unneeded information. What’s more, people apparently get a little burst of dopamine with every completed job.
He says there were a number of reasons that making lists was so popular … and such a good thing to do.
Experts say that list makers should remember that every crossed-off task is a step towards a larger goal, and that making daily lists and updating them throughout the day can transform productivity routines and bring a sense of accomplishment.
However, travellers like Kay Anderson, say it is important for grey nomads for travellers not to become slaves to lists.
“In our early days on the road, my husband Mark seemed to forget that he was actually retired and that living the dream is not actually a job,” she said. “I’m all for making sure that we carry out safety checks when leaving camp and are pretty organised … but it shouldn’t become overwhelming.”
In Kay and Mark’s case, the solution was simply to slow down their travels so they have more time to relax, and spent less time working their way through their list of tasks.
“Like everything, it’s finding a balance,”’ said Kay. “Aside from all the daily stuff, the most important thing on any grey nomad’s list should be just to enjoy the day.”
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I’m definitely a list maker. The lists I use are often repeated for each trip so I don’t have to rethink it again later. Just uncheck all the previously checked items and start again. Packing List is a great app for that.
Very rare that I forget anything. (except maybe to check the list! )
We have two lists. One for the outside pack up and one for the inside pack up. Each of us does our job, then checks the other’s work. Since doing this we’ve had very few problems. We also share a reminders list in our iPhones, so we both know what’s happening day to day, what needs paying etc. We use this at home as well.
We laminate our parking lists, then mark them off with a white board marker, to reuse
We have an Expedition Truck…
The best lists we have are inside the external cabinet doors.. we know exactly what’s in each cabinet without searching each one… we all know stuff only goes wrong in bad weather… and if we have an emergency that requires creativity we know what we have to work with and where it is…